You've gotten out in the real world a bit and you realize the grass really was perfectly green right where you were. It isn't any greener elsewhere and you still have to worry about the leaves and debris in other lovers' lawns.
Now you're just wondering if it's even possible for him to forgive you. Much less give you a second chance. Even if he does offer forgiveness, there's part of you that will never be able to understand: "How can he forgive me for hurting him so much?"
Perhaps it's time to understand that he's wearing his hurt in a thousand different ways. His willingness to give you a second chance is probably on the up and up. He wasn't likely to have just suddenly been able to turn off the feelings he had for you out of nowhere. You want a second chance but you really want to know "How can he forgive me for hurting him so much?" You're not even sure it's possible but you know you want to try.
Love hurts…there's no pretty way to paint that picture. But it doesn't have to be the all pain and darkness. Love is also a beautiful thing. Otherwise people wouldn't be willing to go through all the pain they experience in the search for that one perfect partner.
When you find a man that can forgive you for the hurt you've caused and open up enough to offer you his heart again; you have found a real winner. The hard part is going to be in convincing him that he is that guy and that your relationship is one that is well worth the risks for me. But if you want to hurry the process along a bit and convince him to forgive you there's something you need to do first.
It's the one secret that is necessary for any relationship to move forward after a breakup. More importantly, it's something you're both going to have to do eventually if you want to make the relationship last.
Do you give up?
It's forgiving your partner. Offer forgiveness freely and with no strings attached. When you do this you're inviting your partner to forgive you as well and letting your partner know that you're ready to accept forgiveness in return if the offer ever stands.
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